Too often especially now a days we confuse sex as intimacy. Intimacy is a part of a relationship that can not be over looked and is in the end more important that sex. I will not down play that sex is important for a functional marriage but intimacy is what makes sex beautiful.
Webster states intimacy as "a state marked by emotional closeness." Now a days we live in a generation where closeness is marked as a physical thing. But real "closeness" is much deeper than that. It is a lot easier to strip down physically in front of people rather than emotionally. Stripping down emotionally is more bare, and raw. But from that something wonderful happens. A superficial relationship is put to the side and you are able to build something that is more than skin on skin.
Intimacy comes from communication a type of communication that can be embarrassing, or uncomfortable however this deeper level of communication is also exciting, beautiful and has so much worth. I would beg you to find someone you can talk to, about anything. Not only that but someone who you can grow with and work with. This will help you so much in the long run.
xoxo
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